My ethnicity is | Black/Mixed |
Height | 6'2" (188 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Never drink |
Nickname | Elusivelove, Man, 54 |
Location | New York, New York, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 25 - 55, Asian/White/East Indian... (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black/Mixed |
Height | 6'2" (188 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Never drink |
How would you describe yourself?
Good hearted by nature. My appearance has not matched my age, but it appears I've started to level out a bit. Body stayed like a 25 year old despite eating to my heart's content. I have an athletic type build and love keeping in shape though not fanaticaly. Love teaching to share what I know rather than withold. I have no jealious nature. I'd rather build than tear down. Create rather than destroy. Multi-talented and well schooled in the Arts & Humanities, I am a music historian, a sometimes DJ, and an A student in the study of classical composers. A sponge for knowledge, I love teaching.
I am looking for
A "Porcelain princess" an "Alabaster beauty" a "Goldenlady" an Angelic Asian. With a good sense of humor and preferably well educated.
Now everybody |^Listen-up^|
"Black is Beautiful". I know. So is my cat, he's black. My summer garden is beautiful as well. So are many Art-Deco buildings in New York, but I don't want to romance them! Fair-women are primarily the only gals that turn my head, particularly "Red-heads". If your a "Sista-Girl" don't take it personal. Fair-woman are not a preference, they are an involuntary force of magnetism. Pepsi over Coke is a preference, "Shaken- not stirred" is a preference~ you feel me JB- I do have my favorites, but turn-ons are different. All this to make my point, as preference and attraction are similar though not the same. So sisters don't hate! I have a kind of woman I'm attracted to... U feel me Nicole Kidman?.. Hey Jessica Chastain.. You out there baby-girl?? Translucency, that's the operative word here, or "Clear" to be more specific. We're not talking social injustice or socio-politics here, we're talkin bout what floats your boat and gets-ya going. Chemistry not choice. If you're not that then que sera. Also, since joining the site, I've read your stories. I see that the vast majority of you are really sweet girls looking for that one special guy. But I gotta say the way you convey your hopes, it's like I can visualize violins playing in the background, with some guy serenading you, in VENICE no less! Full moon and all. And I thought I was an idealist, but dag-gone! I feel you though "respect & reciprocity" you deserve that, but cut the violins out, your breakin my heart over here.
And don't be so quick to judge someone's flaws. Some guys may be having a harder time at things than you are. Just because we're men doesn't mean were type "A" perfectionists. We are not people making machines like you ladies. Ya'll HAVE TO be more perfect, the human race "DEPENDS" on it!...
Now, mostly all you ladies feel the same in what you want in a man. Nearly all of you say the same exact thing/almost always the same way. Like your reading off some universal "Girls of the World" banner or something. Now just a thought here, but is it necessary to say you love good food and good conversation? As opposed to what exactly?... BAD FOOD and boring conversation? NOBODY WANTS BAD FOOD!! Nobody in the their right mind anyway! Or anything bad for that matter! Everyone wants GOOD food!!.. Even my CAT prefers "Wild Salmon" over ground-Chuck! The point being ladies its not necessary to state the obivious. And if I see another profile saying "No games please" or "life is short-and I don't have time for GAMES" I'm gonna throw away my CHESS Set!! I don't play games with people's feelings, but just for the record ladies: Most guys are gonna be as faithful as their options.. You really think Don Juan or Valentino, is gonna settle down with little YOU?.. Why?.. The Cassenovas of the world are not the type to settle down! Their too much of a hot commodity! Everybody and your sister is gonna be wooed!, It takes a wise & mature~ well behaved man to settle down with one women. Some men have different ideas about loyalty. Common descency is an issue for some men. We must humanize ourselves, and have self control. I've always been good natured and strive for self inventory. If I don't like what I see, I try to change it.
I like a women with a pleasant demeanor and graceful femininity. Understated sensuality in everyday life. In simple things in her presence; her unaware niavete. Sensual in stride while not knowing it. Your sweet demenor like icing on our cake that makes everything so great -¤- As we recipricate our desire, lite the flame that takes us higher, hope love's journey won't expire, when needing love I won't deny her, wanting you before/ meaning prior- to last encounters we aspise- I get arousels by the hour, your oh so sweet you'll never sour. And so content with sentiment, to get a glispe of pretty undergarments. I want your body I've admired, elated spirits rise like spires, to your devotion I am an heir, I saw your picture, became inspired, girls like you no one could buy her If lured by temptress wouldn't try her|
I want a good girl who is sensual. Good heartedness is great, but I don't want too much of a saint. I need a little naughty to get me. Too much of a saint~ I'm ashamed for ever wanting you; sort of like pouring ice water in my lap, If your good deeds were all men wanted, we'd all have made a "B- Line " for Mother Teresa. I want someone who makes me feel right at home & where the heart is.
Another thing.. Most of u list your choices for men as though we are applying for Special Forces with u or something?, or like people as Denzel or John Legend are still available?"Coffee time". What you really need is a "Build it yourself/ Build Your Own dude" site, and leave what u want, and take out what u don't! The truth is we can hope for the best- and check out the rest. Whichever way, always know this.. Men are from Mars/ Women are from Venus. Let's try and compromise somewhere along the way..
Now, you don't need a college degree 2 get with me, but please know a thing or 2 about a thing or two. And if your the type who keeps the TV on Sports Channel "yeah" as opposed to the History or the "LEARNING" Channel, or simply watching a good movie, we're gonna have a problem with the remote, but don't fret.. I will watch the Super Bowl when it comes around, and maybe some of the games before that! I used to play running back n kicker u know!!. Thanks 4 your time and consideration. Chow 4 now, Bye bye.