My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'9" (175 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Dev_tru0604, Woman, 38 |
Location | Hope Mills, North Carolina, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 33 - 41, Asian/White/East Indian... (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'9" (175 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
To save myself some time as well as whoever reads this, please continue on in your search and skip sending me a flirt or contacting me if any of the following applies to you:
- You have no photo, and/or over the age specified.
- You're not looking for anything serious, only looking to hook up/pass by your time/fulfill some fantasy you have.
- You're not legally single.
- You're incapable of taking a conversation beyond the typical "You're so hot/beautiful/sexy. You should give me your number and send me more pics of you." or the infamous, "I'm packing." No one really cares and that's not impressive to say the least. If you can't stimulate me mentally, you'll never be able to expect yourself to stimulate me physically. Trust me.
-You're not emotionally available (meaning you are still stuck on an ex or have recently ended a relationship and are not fully healed from said relationship).
- You have an issue with someone with a child (ren).
I love my career, and it has made me very successful thus far. I get to help people, and that's the most rewarding thing ever! First and foremost, my child is my world and my life and comes before anything and anyone. My child is my motivation to push hard in every aspect of my life, be it career, education, etc. I'm down to earth, simple, humble, hard working, highly goal and family-oriented, and conservative in the way I dress. I don't do clubs. I'm an intelligent goofball. I'm grounded and well rounded, loyal, random at times, intuitive, ornery, and curious. I love building and taking things apart. I love repurposing old and new things alike. Nothing brings more peace than nature. I love music, dancing, and singing (doesn't mean I can, but hey, I'm not too too bad.). I really like to be in shape (I'm no gym rat though). I'm a cuddling aficionado who is OBSESSED with fluffy blankets. I'm an animal lover (that includes snakes and mice). I am more spiritual than religious. I have a very strong moral compass. I treat everyone like a human being should be treated no matter their background, color, religion, or circumstance. I'm someone who is highly flawed. I suck at sticking to diets because hey, a girl's gotta eat. Like every other woman, sometimes I'm weird for no darn reason. I'm nowhere near perfect, and if you are looking for that, I'm probably not your cup of tea. I can only relocate within my state, but there’s no option for that.
I am looking for
If you're still reading:
Describing the type of guy I'm looking for right out of the gate sets the guy up to act the way or say the things that I describe here instead of showing his real self. I'd rather a guy be himself instead of doing or saying all the things that he already knows I want to hear him say or see him do. Just be yourself, and if things go well then great! I will say this though. I am looking for a connection. I am looking for not only my lover but also for my best friend first and foremost, my big spoon, my partner in crime, and life partner. The best and longest lasting relationships begin as a friendship. I think if more couples actually took the proper time and steps to truly get to know one another and become best friends to start out with, then there would be fewer couples and marriages breaking up. That's just my opinion.I believe, that out of the over 6 billion people on this planet, there is someone for everyone. That's all you're getting for now. So...... Surprise me.