My ethnicity is | Black/Mixed |
Height | 5'11" (180 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | DeQuincy, Man, 47 |
Location | Havre, Montana, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 22 - 38, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black/Mixed |
Height | 5'11" (180 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I just left Asia (Hong Kong) and have moved back to Texas my home after being gone for 5 years. I have traveled the world and back, interacted/worked with many different cultures and jobs. I am easy going guy and very easy to get along with.***UPDATE*** I have just temp moved to Montana, I will be here for the next 3 to 6 months. I doubt I will be returning to Houston TX and will likely be looking for a new place to begin a new a life.
I don't know what to expect from this but I can tell you what you can expect from me.
I am not here to play games with anyone... My hopes are to meet a friend, partner, lover and God willing a wife. Someone to give my all to and sharing everything I have with her... Not just someone to "love" but someone to give myself to... There is a difference.
I do like to go out from time to time but no longer into the Club every weekend kinda thing.
I am family oriented because I also want one. I travel a lot for pleasure and work. I can sometimes be a nerd... I read books, the news all day, I love art, going for drives, picnics, festival, I'm an IT professional (IT Project Manager at Foster Wheeler) so I love computers, gadgets and yes of course I love video games. I love movies and shows with episodes. I take care of myself, I work out, I play racquetball, I also like to go fishing, karaoke, swimming and playing pool, darts or just about any type of card game. I am not a typical African-American Man... And in no way is that brag... I am just saying I am different.
I don't know much about this website so am giving it a try, I feel... Love is so hard to find... Even harder if you are limiting yourself to some chance encounter with some random person on the street or something. I am also open to just making friends here... Not everything has to be like "So, bae... You wanna get with me or not?" But I am only interested in meeting positive people... Whom do positive things.
One more thing and this is just me being honest...
After 12 yrs marriage I am recently divorced (over one year and something odd months)...
I have been asked many times what happened in my marriage... Id rather put it all out on the table now.
We were both young in that relationship... We both didn't realize the proper way for a husband and wife to be together until it was too late. We had drifted apart and there was already too much pain to remain.
I have waited one year, which I feel is a respectable time-frame to wait before considering beginning anew with someone else.
I am looking for
I am looking for a life partner... A best friend, someone to share all my thoughts, dreams and life goals. Physical attractions is important but its not the primary motivation that has driven me to this site. If you dont know what a "life partner" is and if you dont know how to love, or how to be loved or if you got several people hanging on side please do not message me. If you got some ex-whom is now a bestfriend and they are waiting for the stars to align with the moon in hopes for you two to get back together, please do not message me. I am not going to compete with the past. What I am looking for supersedes all the BS, I am not looking for BS, I am looking for that special someone whom will be there for the rest of our lives. I believe wholeheartedly in monogamy.
On the chance encounter comment I made earlier... On that note, distance is also not an issue. I am open to a long distance relationship... If you are the one I am looking for... I will cross any ocean and any distance to be with you... Any place is a life worth living for the one you love.