My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'8" (173 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Datin, Woman, 35 |
Location | Sydney, New South Wales, Australia |
Looking for a | Man, aged 25 - 35, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'8" (173 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I am most passionate about life and learning, seeing people and myself achieve things that are important to them, overcoming their fears and living a fulfilling life.., Life is precious... And each day should be lived to the absolute fullest.. I try to respect everyone, understand them and learn from them. However if someone is ready to show whom they are, be honest and truthful, that's fantastic!.. I am a very good listener and have the ability to be present. I have a way of making people very comfortable around me due to my non judgmental, uplifting nature.
I am looking for
I'm looking for someone to be everything for me -- surely that's not too much to ask. You won't be able to do it without my help, so, I'll be frank and fearless in my criteria, if you'll be upfront about exactly which boxes you tick, deal?
OPEN Wear your mask in the outside world all you want, but to me you should be an open book. In fact, we can lie to the world together. What delights you, what scares you, your hopes, your dreams, your vulnerabilities, they all have to be accessible. You're allowed to hate the television shows I love, you're not allowed to just smile, nod, and sit through them and pretend you love them. We're a team, fundamentally we need to be the same, but, it's our differences that create ways for us to do things for one another.
PASSIONATE When you're pissed off you swear, when you're sad you cry, when you laugh your face lights up, when you're angry you burn like fire. You're an emotional extremist, unashamed of your natural responses to things, good or bad, and it shows. The things you love, you really love; the things you hate, you utterly despise. That's what true passion is. Motivation lasts five minutes, inspiration lasts a lifetime. So you're never motivated to do things, but inspired instead.
DEVOTED "What can I do for you today?" is going to be my favourite question to ask you, so, I hope it's high on your list as well. We're everything to each other, after all. How can I stir your passions? How can I stimulate your mind? How can I make you smile? We're the people that matter the most to one another, and we're always looking for ways to show it.
INTELLIGENT You don't exactly have to have letters after your name, but, you need to be able to put those brain cells to good use. Be interested and curious about things, ask questions, seek knowledge, feed your soul some art and culture, all that good stuff. A mind is too good a thing to waste.
NO-NONSENSE You don't have time for bullshit, you do what you want, for as long as you want, because you know how to be selfish. Life's too short to waste, so you never waste a second being anyone other than you. You speak your mind and get to the point as well, because, where's the sense in processing your thoughts through a social filter? If you think it, you say it. And it's only the people closest to you that get to see your softness, to everyone else, you're tough as nails.
AHEM I can only imagine how fantastic it will be with the person that knows all the kinks and quirks to get me going. Giving a man the keys to your body is a dangerous game though, as it makes one very vulnerable, but, that won't be an issue. We'll know exactly how to hit each other's buttons, we'll have no limits for one another, and we'll know exactly how we like it. We're the only ones who hold the key to each other's bodies.
That's that... So are you one of those rare men that can meet the criteria above? Can you truly be all the things I need you to be, and am willing to be for you? Looking forward to hearing from you.