My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
Nickname | Chocoholicv, Woman, 46 |
Location | Port Harcourt, Rivers, Nigeria |
Looking for a | Man, aged 40 - 47, White/Mixed/Native American (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
How would you describe yourself?
Errm...well...how do I even start? This is my first time on a dating website and first time on an interracial dating website. It feels like learning to swim for the first time. I'm a God fearing woman. I may not be able to completely describe myself here, but I'll try the best I can. I love laughing and creating my own happiness. I love reading (my bible & inspirational books) & watching movies (comedy & suspense). Currently switching career from therapist to teacher, so I'm engaged in a few online courses to develop my teaching skills. I'm looking forward to teaching Geography & Environmental science in middle school & high school; and hopefully a lecturer/research assistant in some university thereafter. My practice is reflexology, aromatherapy & stone therapy. I'm still going to practice as a therapist when I start teaching, but part time. I blend aromatherapy oils for various ailments like headaches/migraine, arthritis, menstrual cramps etc. I'm working on getting an international job as a teacher cos I want to explore other cultures and experience new stuff - it's part of my "moving on" plan. Been through a divorce. It hasn't been a pleasant experience, but...I think life's experiences are not just meant to teach us, but to make us stronger...you would agree with me that a sprained ankle doesn't mean you won't walk again. Sometimes life isn't fair, but it's all good. I choose happiness, and I choose life, & I believe in miracles.The best is yet to come. 💞
I have a passion for humanitarian work & charity outreach programs. To my best capacity I avail myself to opportunities where I can render free therapy to less privileged people. I do that mostly during World Reflexology Week (WRW annual program) where we give free therapies to children with special needs, & other special programs with like manner. I belong to an outreach department in my community church ~PRISONS~ where we visit inmates & encourage them with the Gospel of Jesus, share meals with them, & celebrate birthdays of the month. We do that twice a month. Always an emotional fulfilling experience for me.
I love nature & art & romance.
I'm a mother and I love my kids dearly. I'm not a black curvy goddess. I have my kangaroo pouch & stretch marks; I call them my shooting stars haha😀. I do not have tats or body piercings. I try as much as I can to eat healthy. I love yoga & callanetics, and honestly I wish I could be committed to regular workouts physically as I am mentally. Would be nice if I had a partner who encourages me in keeping fit. I love cooking & when I have the time I bake as well. I'm super excited about learning various dishes from other cultures...it's an interracial dating site right?
My kind of music -Christian, pop, reggae, rock, r&b, jazz- my favorite artists -Ron Kenoly, Don Moen, Barry White, Gloria Gaynor, Bob Marley, Milly Jackson, Tina Turner, Adele, Abba, Bon Jovi, Michael Bolton- can't list all now.
Gratitude, love, contentment, & laughter are my personality strength.
I will probably add more details as time goes on.
Stay safe ✌
I am looking for
I'm not perfect, so I'm not looking for Mr. Perfect. I'm looking for a FRIEND who is passionate about God. A fun person, with good positive energy in low & high times and a good sense of humor. An open minded outgoing person with realistic and adventurous goals & dreams. Someone who'll embrace me for who I am & awaken my inner greatness. A good story teller who can keep a conversation going. No boring tales. Good sense of humor, cos I love laughing. I laugh a lot. I love talking & being talked to. Don't mind if you have kids and could be a mother to your kids too. Not sure about having another baby; maybe yes maybe no. It's open to chance haha😀
I'm looking at longterm relationship & marriage in the future. Every relationship starts with friendship, getting to know each other, build trust & confidence; and it gets deeper when there's meaningful connection. So after a few chats and phone calls, hopefully I guess we'd be mature enough to know where it's headed & how it's going to be. It's a waste of time if you're not committed.
I'm not a fan of divorce. Relationships can work if both parties work at it TOGETHER with God. I perfectly understand we're beings with unique imperfections, so there'll be misunderstandings & arguments. We don't have to win every argument. We can think things through in good times & we can think things through in bad times. I want a THINKING friend... Lol...then, we can talk things through...and WORK things through. Forgive others, forgive yourself and let go. If we "fight", let's fight to stay together (not physical fights though)
I have never walked through the woods or taken a hike in pure beautiful nature or camped out; I've never had a candle light dinner date. It's not common where I come from, & it's something I want to experience 😍 would you be the first to do it with me? Would love luuuuuurve it!!! 💖
I want to hear from you. Drop a message. Say hello.
Stay safe. Remain blessed.
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