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I just took a chance on someone who was a new member. She was the most beautiful woman I had ever noticed so despite the distance (I live in Ohio and she lives in Arizona)I wanted to speak to her. I emailed her and got a response back very quickly. We actually had an instant message chat soon after that and discovered we had so much in common and our personalities were so compatible. We exchang... read more

Ice3945, Age 26, Ohio

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Hello Again...
Nickname:  C_i_n_d_y
Location:  United States, Kentucky, Lexington
Age:  34
I am a:  Woman
Looking for a:  Man, aged 25 - 42
Relationship seeking:  Friends
Eye color:  Brown
Hair color:  Black
Height:  5'7"-5'11" (170cm-180cm)
Body Type:  Average
My ethnicity is:  Black / Non-African descent
Religion:  Christian - Other
Education:  Some college
Smoking behavior:  Hate smoking
Drinking behavior:  Never
Relationship Status:  Single
Have children:  No
Want children:  Yes
Languages:  English
Occupation:  Health
When it comes to relocation:  I am not prepared to relocate
Starsign:  Don't display my starsign
My Personality
Ideally I'd live in a: 
In the city, House in the suburbs, Property in the country
My fashion sense is: 
Dress according to the occasion, Wear the latest trends
My sense of humor is: 
Goofy - I'm Dumb and Dumber in one, Sarcastic - Dennis Miller is a cream puff compared to me, Light-hearted - I like cheerful, gentle fun
When I go to parties: 
I'm in the background but enjoying myself, I go with the flow
On a day off, I enjoy: 
Something athletic or energetic, Napping, Lunch with a friend, Catching up on household chores, Spending time with the family, Watching TV or a movie
I attend religious services: 
Rarely
When it comes to work: 
I keep a standard 40-hour work week
Who Am I?
How would you describe yourself?: 
*UPDATE*
I'm never in a rush with love. I feel love is something that shouldn't be rushed but something we should constantly nurture. I tend to drag my feet when I'm feeling pressured and yes, I'm very typical when I say that you have to be my friend before we could ever be anything more. I do NOT have a 3 month sex rule, I really don't have a time frame for sex but it IS my choice so bugging me about it, really wont remove my panties any faster. Sorry, i'm not into one nite stands or friends with benefits, i'm not judging if you do its jut not for me. I enjoy web camming from time to time, no not to boost my ego. I believe that seeing someones reaction during a conversation is nice and a smile caught in the moment trumps a picture with a fake smile anyday. That being said...

Im a goofy, clumsy, affectionate brutally honest female. I'm a non-drinker/non-smoker who loves kids but I do not have any. I'm actually pretty boring. Let me elaborate... I'm not on here looking for my next random hook up or to be your "walk on the wild side" I enjoy sex talk as much as the next adult but all in good time. I'm 34 yrs old so trust me when I say that I've surpassed the "kept woman" stage of my life. (I don't want or need promises of luxury and wealth). I want to meet someone who can speak to me about more than his penis size or how much money he brings in a year. Impress me with your heart not your wallet.

Give me goosebumps from a look or make my heart melt from small things like holding and kissing me without making me feel obligated to have sex with you. Lets have long conversations about nonsense or deep meaningful things that will affect our lives or make us laugh like goofballs. Remember unimportant things about me that no one else seems to care about. I'm not complicated I just want something more than moist thighs and dirty sheets.

Oh and if you are looking for that party girl to drink or get high with ummm... You are sooo in the wrong profile. Sorry. I like to have fun I just don't think I have to be wasted to do it, no offense.
What Am I Looking For?
I am looking for: 
Someone I would trust my life with or take my last breath for. Someone who isn't bitter or brings old wounds into a new relationship. Someone who isn't weird or creepy (if you get offended by those words... U are probably the creep I'm talking about).

Please please please no feminine men, it's awkward.
*UPDATE*
What's a feminine man you ask?

Well if you:

1.)Take 2 hrs or more getting dressed - I mean c'mon! What is it exactly that a man has to do that would require that much time getting dressed?

2.)Wax your legs - Don't get me wrong I know some men are hairy and require some wax work but don't over do it. Men are not suppose to be soft. There is nothing sexier than rubbing my legs against a man's and feeling the contrast of our bodies, the brush of his hairs on my skin *sighs* yum

3.)Read me poems EVERYDAY - OKAY! I get it, you have feelings! I love poems but honestly reading this stuff on a regular basis makes it less special and kinda makes us dread hearing them. (this is stuff women think but never say)

Looking for ethnicity: 
Asian, White / European descent, Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Mixed / Multi, Native American, Other