My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | BrendaMarie, Woman, 48 |
Location | Elmira, New York, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 33 - 50, Black/Mixed |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I would describe myself as friendly, easy-going and most importantly honest and loyal. I am independent and hard-working. I try to look my best and take care of myself. I am a single mom with 2 sons. That should explain how I spend most of my time. I am very feminine. I need a good man to bring out the best in me. I have learned alot through past experiences. Even though I have made some mistakes I haven't forgotten where I come from. I will never try to be anything that I'm not. One of the biggest mistakes people make is trying to conform to what their partner wants. I've made that mistake in the past and it never works out. I can only be who I am and I know that there's someone out there for me. I'm not the kind of woman who needs to have a man. I would rather be alone than settle.
**FYI... Not all women on here lie and put up pictures that don't look like who they really are. I don't mind sending more pictures but don't make me feel like I'm being interrogated and don't let that be your first request. I understand some people have had unfortunate experiences but try to treat everyone as individuals.
**Update... I have raised my kids by myself. In the past few years I've realized why a man is so important in their children's lives, especially boys. My kids didn't have that. They are not perfect and neither am I. If you are not sensitive or understanding of the challenges children bring(especially teenagers)then please do not contact me. Even though my kids are challenging at times I wouldn't change anything. I have raised them with morals and values and respect. They may forget that at times but deep down they know who they are. I hope I'm not making them sound like horrible kids. They are far from it but I have realized that it takes some effort and understanding if you're coming into a situation like mine.
I am looking for
I am looking for a man who is honest, confident, successful and independent. Someone who will put in as much effort as I will. I want someone who can make me laugh and who will honestly care about my feelings. I am not needy but I do like attention from my man. I am somewhat old fashioned. I want a man who will treat me like a lady. I'm not looking for someone to pay my bills but I want someone who is financially secure. I want a man I can respect and one I can depend on. We both should know what our positions are on this team. Men and women are not equal. We have different roles that are equally important. I am not into one night stands. Just because you drive a few hours or get on a plane to see me doesn't mean I owe you. I am an adult and I don't set time limits on things. If we have a connection as adults we can do what we are comfortable with. I expect to be treated like a lady and I expect the man to act like a man. I want a man who can take control. He should not be prettier than me or take longer than I do getting ready. I like real people who are real in every way. I don't want to be better at changing a tire than you are.
I feel the need to say this. I'm not on here looking to fulfill a fantasy or satisfy a curiousity. I have always and only dated black men. I'm not looking for a hook up or a one night stand. If you're just looking for a good time with no strings attached, you won't find that in me.
FYI... A graduate degree doesn't mean high school graduate.