My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | BB-Tamara, Woman, 51 |
Location | Nanaimo, British Columbia, Canada |
Looking for a | Man, aged 38 - 50, Black/Mixed/Other |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I’m a kind-hearted, down-to-earth, smart, quirky girl that likes to make people laugh, and I don’t think I could survive without the ocean and nature around me. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I fall in love quickly, but I don’t choose quickly and I don’t sleep around. I’m no beauty queen with a rock-hard body, but that can change. What I can't change is my open heart, and I believe that if one truly loves with all that it means, then time, distance, culture, status, people or age should never come between them.
I have a boy and girl that I have 75%, and I have a very healthy relationship with their father and his girlfriend because I think it’s important for my kids. Travelling to Africa changed me in ways that I now find hard to connect with here. I no longer strive to keep up with the Jones’. Everything I have I own, and I know that a full heart and a simpler life is a happier one. I can't stomach spending hundreds a month on fake eyelashes, gel nails or cosmetic work etc. with what’s going on in our world!
It looks like the beauty of long relationships has become a thing of the past because the “next best thing” might be at the next swipe. I’m very sad about that, and I fear for our children because the world is getting very sick. The grass is not greener on the other side, it's greener where YOU water it. If you find something that works, focus on it. I don’t believe anyone will find their PERFECT match, but chemistry and SOME mutual beliefs and interests is a pretty great start I think. Sometimes one likes the other, or vice-versa, but if you can find something close, hold on to it, and why not focus on ONE, because so many souls aren’t as lucky at finding “close” as you are.
I believe successful relationships are partnerships, and they thrive when both people are equally committed; so do your best to communicate, love and compromise with each other. This age has created picky, entitled people with no fight in them and the next date just around the corner. Ride those waves together because in the end, the beautiful bond created gets stronger in those years you catch each other than it is to keep looking for the “next best thing”! Time moves on and is no one’s friend, so I hope you don’t find yourself missing the boat and alone in the end, because that’s not what LIFE's about!
There are too many EU men out there just looking for convenience or seeking cheap thrills; but instead of staying in a dead marriage, I chose to gamble on being alone and not finding my love. I detest games and drama of any kind. I’m looking for something so much deeper than that, but apparently, I should also be 10-20 years younger to attract men my own age, go figure! That said, I still won’t lie or post pictures from years ago because I believe integrity is worth SO much more!
Good luck in your search for whatever it is you're looking for... and stay blessed!
I am looking for
I think everyone wants strong chemistry, but I’d love to meet someone like-minded. He’s playful and funny; a little perverted and crazy; likes to camp, travel and take little road trips and knows how to relax when he’s on them. He’s masculine, confident, has good sexual energy, and knows how to give and receive love. He can be a role model to someone else’s children (and I know it takes a great man for that). He’s handy and likes to have fun working together inside and out - I know, tall order right, ugghh!