My ethnicity is | Latino |
Height | 5'2" (157 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Aseret, Woman, 50 |
Location | Tulsa, Oklahoma, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 42 - 48, White (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Latino |
Height | 5'2" (157 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
"Hoping this time is not a hoax.Take your time Read"
Where the white guys are?
I'll prefer to date Caucasian guys
I am a self-oriented, educated, mother of two and they are MY LIFE. I think that I am a very laidback person and I like to be reasonable when dealing with situations is about. I am a very honest person and I like things to be explained to me with a valuable reason and clear. I don't read minds. I don't need a piggy bank. I can take care of myself. I have a wonderful family and in the same way I will respect your family I want for my family to be respected as well. I'm a very confident and not a joke VERY, VERY smart person, very hard to fool.
While everyone is looking for the right one I'm looking for the Real one. My believe is that if I can deal with your imperfections and you can deal with mines and we can agreed in our imperfections trying as a couple to improve it and communicate I know it will be ok. I'm just a simple human and make mistakes and I recognized when I have made a mistake and is not hard for me to say I'm sorry. My expectations are for you to do the same. If you can’t do that, then stay away of my profile.
looking for a MAN who I can talk about everything (I'm a talker) unless he wants to kiss me all the time to keep my mouth shut. A man who will not to exchange a GREAT sex with his woman for a video game night, his mother, Facebook, female friends, Sundayfunday orgies with friends, unless he's on duty as in the military and his real time is compromise by work not for a chick or side chick who is bored and need attention while your girlfriend is on bed. I won't entertain that and you'll see me leaving right away. If you ask me a question I'll answer that question but don't you expect I will answer what you want me to answer or what you want to hear.
I don't get why is so hard to understand I'm not a BED PERSON, bed is good... But I think people have a HOUSE for a reason, with a laundry room, living room, sometimes stairs etc. I like to be treated equally.
I like spontaneity and a man who is not afraid to kiss his woman in front of people or to hold her hand, to be in the kitchen with me or just chill on the sofa. I dislike confrontations, arguments or a person who can't split his time or not being capable to multitask, that's absurd for me as I am a mother, worker, grandma, friend and I can make time for everyone and everything. If you are a procrastinator STAY AWAY. I LIKE THINGS say and done. I understand if you work from home, to take care of work and make calls is very important as I don't like to be bother when I'm working. I want a man who is very detailed man. Please if you are upset for any reason and I have anything to do with it, please tell me that you need time. Please make it clear and I'll give you the space and time you need. I can't read minds. I want a organized man, CLEAN not a man who only have one part of the house clean and that's the pool while the house is gross and nasty. Please no OCD person who'll yield at me if I move a cup. If you have kids and they're not living with you please make time for them specially if you have them once a year, do not drag me into that ;frame as you might not be capable to multitask or to take care of two things at the same time. Those are your kids and I respect that. Spent time with them and when you done then call me. Way too much drama (yelling, arguments, disrespect) will push me away. Specially when you can't even handle your kids for a period of time.
If you are mad, upset, disappointed or just need a spare time please let me know. Go and have a drink with your friends, go and sleep or just drive away. We all need that solo moment and I honestly will understand. Till this point in my life I can't read minds and I never will. If you think your friends are a very huge part of your life, please stick with it, my intentions on having a date is not for you to change who you are but if you can't have friends and a girlfriend or a date at the same time then stop reading and go to the next profile. then I don't need to be in your life. I want to be the friend who you can trust and go on a one night of adventure. Not the one you will feel you can't trust and will ask all the time if I bring a man home.
I am looking for
I'm looking for a MAN who I can talk about everything (I'm a talker... Unless he wants to kiss me all the time to keep my mouth shut lol). A man who will not to exchange a GREAT sex with his woman for a video game night, Twitter, Politics or any social, his mother or work, unless he's on duty, and there’s always a lunch time ;0). I'm not a BED PERSON, bed is good, but I think people have a HOUSE for a reason, with a laundry room, living room, sometimes stairs etc... (If you don't understand what I meant to say with this I’ll be more than happy to explain it to you)
I like spontaneity and a man who's not afraid to kiss and hold hands to his woman in front of people. I want to be the friend, who you can trust and go on a one night of adventure. I hate routine; well routine is good but sometimes we as a humans have to be spontaneous. I'm looking for a MAN not a "mama's boy" who have to tell everything to mommy because he can't take care of his relationship or his actions nor can express his feelings to his woman. I hate drama and mind games; I’m too old for that. A control is a two people thing and always has a happy medium. I want a talker, a smart, out spoken man, who know how to carry himself and feel confident with his self. A man who does not hesitate to ask me if am low on gas, like he will not be mad when I want to pay for the bill after a nice dinner, the rest will depend on how much wine we have drank that night. I prefer a man with kids already grown; the dramas of child support stress me out. A man who can be independent enough to have a washer and dryer and cable in his house and a Sunday Fun day is not an every weekend routine at his moms house. A person who can at least try to be clean and keep the house clean and understands that dogs are our pets, but they still animals. One lay-back man, not a Careless man. A man that can pay the same attention to his girl as he do to his male friends. I am NOT a jealous person, so please do not try to play mind games with me. I create the book of mind games and if someone will be hurt I promise you, it won’t be me. I dislike arguments for stupid things and also HATE BABY MAMA DRAMA. Keep your ex's away but your kids closer. We all have hobbies, I don’t mind to practice any type of new things like hunting, fishing or whatever you want me to learn, but don’t try to change or impose that to me as it will be a waste of your time. I am not looking for a piggy bank, I can take care of myself, but please a cheap dinner or at least to get groceries it not supposed to be an expense but a life necessity, if you have money to spend in cigarettes, alcohol or women’s then you can take your girl to IHOOP and not say that is too expensive. Because there will be another men who take her and please her while you complain.
Again; if you think my request of what I like fin a man is way too much for you stay away from my page and do yourself a favor as I don't like to go puertorrican in people.
Thank you! I'm not affiliated with any military Branch.. I really appreciate and respect what this military men and woman have done and are doing for our country, especially those one who have to leave their family because of their jobs. God bless you all!