My ethnicity is | Asian |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Angelicbrat, Woman, 40 |
Location | Tuscaloosa, Alabama, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 27 - 38, White/Latino/Mixed... |
My ethnicity is | Asian |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
FEMININE in every physical sense but is NEVER RESTRICTED by it
OPTIMISTIC but avoids disappointment with PESSIMISM;
A THINKER but can still LOSE CONTROL;
A DREAMER who still wakes up in REALITY;
A MEDIOCRE who aims for PERFECTION;
CHOOSY but not FICKLE;
FIGURE CONSCIOUS but always HUNGRY;
STRONG as steel but can still be VULNERABLE;
CHALLENGES opinions but CONCEDES to a fight;
SILENT but knows how to make NOISE;
OPENS her EARS but SHUTS her MOUTH;
CRIES over someone but STILL FALLS IN LOVE;
EMOTIONALLY TRANSPARENT but can HIDE IT AS WELL;
Gets FRUSTRATED but can remain CALM;
COMPLAINS but still TRIES;
LOOKS UP but never LOOKS DOWN;
SLEEPS SOUNDLY but wakes up ON TIME;
Plans AHEAD but lives life ONE DAY AT A TIME;
Does not COMPETE but recognizes DEFEAT;
Does not PRAISE oneself but gratefully ACCEPTS FLATTERY;
LAUGHS but can still be SERIOUS;
TALKS but never forgets to LISTEN;
THINKS BEFORE SPEAKING but still in danger of CHOOSING THE WRONG WORDS;
STERN LOOKING but SOFT-HEARTED;
ACCEPTS ideas but remains OPEN;
STARES from afar but LOSES EYE CONTACT;
RELAXES but listens to ROCK music;
SIMPLE but may be COMPLEX;
CONTRADICTING but BALANCED... EQUILIBRIUM in its HUMAN FORM...
I am looking for
I like smart guys, and funny guys, I like guys who dance (when I was a kid I loved Patrick Swayze and John Travolta and I never knew why), and sing, who look clean (the more metrosexual you are the better )caring but not possessive, lets me have my space but knows when I need a little TLC...
And someone not stifling too. I like to drift off into stores and crowds, sometimes countries, religions and philosophies. So, he must keep up. Seriously now, I don't need someone who lags behind physically and mentally whenever I feel like taking the world by storm. I guess this explains why I have an affinity towards the opinionated, better-traveled, exotic, thought-provoking and emotionally mature ones. That said, no thank you..."Body By Nautilus; Brain By Mattel." :)
So if you're out there, save me Superman!... Or else I'll never know that you are out there. I am not an intellectual snob but you will certainly make a better impression if you at least type like you have a brain. English is not my first language and I'm far from perfect, but I make the effort. That said, having paid attention in English class is a plus. Hey, it's absolutely hard to convince today's modern discerning women that you are reasonably educated along with a degree of professional success if you can't spell a damn! Reasonable exceptions apply of course. I don't mean to sound harsh, but first impressions are 1) formed VERY fast, 2) difficult to change, 3) and drastically colors future assessments of people's behavior.
Sigh, like I can ever find someone like this... I am bereft of prospects. I know I am far from ideal... I think too much; I am a huge klutz; I am stubborn to a fault; I am so damn good at over-analyzing the intricacies of human behavior; I have inborn sarcasm & biting wit; I have a huge weakness for chocolate cake and milkshakes and dear God I will probably never be as thin as Taylor Swift.:) LOL
FYI, I don't underestimate the magical powers of "chemistry". The "one" can be full of potholes but somehow that makes him all the more interesting, the quirks add up to a very nice package. I also have a tight grip on reality. I know what I want but you probably figured that out already. Some dreams are just not negotiable. Simply put... I still believe in the Specificity Principle---I get what I settle for!:)
Oh, one last thing... Be a gentleman. I can pay for half of the hypothetical date, but arguing over it would be sweet.:)