My ethnicity is | Mixed |
Height | 5'4" (163 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Andellita, Woman, 51 |
Location | Houston, Texas, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 40 - 46, Black/Mixed/Other (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Mixed |
Height | 5'4" (163 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I'm a sweet, genuine tomboy at heart, who loves sports, laughter, stimulating conversation and cooking. As my makeup is more pragmatic than most females, I tend to be a bit more understanding of the male mind & tendancies, but that doesn't mean I don't command respect and to be treated like a Lady. As much as I can kick it, and watch a good basketball or football game with the guys, I also like to get dressed up, and go out to dinner or a nice wine bar.
I am very private, and a Lady of few words (except with this excerpt haha) when it comes to expressing myself. It's not that I won't, I am just tactful and tend to process things rationally, opposed to erratically just reacting, basically I have control of my emotions, and am not emotionally selfish like most women tend to be. I love unconditionally, but this doesn't mean I will allow myself to be taken advantage of, or for granted. Life is about expectancy, not expectations (if you don't know the difference, look it up)
I'm not confrontational at all, nor do I like games and drama, nor do I have patience for either. I'm sensitive, yet very strong. I find the most sensitive usually are the toughest. I lost my best friend, my Dad unexpectedly in 2012, life has been different for me since, but has also taught me a lot about myself, and what I want in life. In the same light, I have found myself wanting to seize the moment more with those special to me, and never take anything or anyone for granted
A few things that make me smile: "Good morning" texts, stimulating conversation, sweetness, kisses on the forehead, small sweet surprises, a good basketball or football game, making others smile
I am looking for
First, I'm not looking to get married tomorrow. I'm looking for my best friend.. So friendship first, & let's see where things go from there. Yes, ideally I would like to be married someday, but realize there is a journey traveled before getting there, and that it may not be with with just anyone. Basically I am open to making some friends along the way.
I believe in a relationship, a Man & Woman do have certain roles (yes, I'm a bit old fashioned) but at the same time, they are a team, life partners. I like to make the Man in my life feel good, but I refuse to be any Man's mom. I like a Man in charge, one who makes a woman feel safe and is sure of himself and his ability to be aggressive in the areas that a woman may not be. My ideal relationship is with my best friend, a life partner where we have the same values, and interests, but can balance each other, not necessarily complete each other. Both need to be whole in a relationship, codependency is poisonous to self and relations. I take the time to understand and do not manipulate or control any man to get what I want. I prefer a Man WANTING to be who he is, and do things because he is lead by his heart to do so. A big human flaw that can kill any beautiful relationship is EGO. If you genuinely love someone, you have to work through things, understand even if you don't agree. Suppress the ego, amplify the heart, then arguments or misunderstandings won't be about who is right or wrong, but more about nurturing the relationship and always learning wanting to explore and grow with each other.