My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'3" (160 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Other build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | AfricanVio, Woman, 53 |
Location | Laurel, Maryland, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 44 - 53, White/Latino (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'3" (160 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Other build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I'm confident, funny, passionate , honest and direct. I am very affectionate and enjoy public displays of affection, forehead kisses and cuddles. I will want you to massage my feet and enjoy it.(no hammer toes, corns or bunions here!) I need to have engaging conversations and love getting attention from my man. I'm a planner, but can be easily spontaneous as well. I am passionate about travel. I simply love exploring other countries: the people, culture, food, etc. This is not to say that I don't also enjoy domestic travel. New Orleans, Arizona and Seattle are just a few places on my bucket list. I love photography, so be prepared to watch me take lots of pictures of "stuff" when we go places! I'm a nature-loving person and to that end, love gardening, hiking, beaches and mountains. I'm a foodie, so I love to cook and try new restaurants. Italian and american bbq are my favorite foods. I'm a music lover, with almost 400 songs on my Google Play account, i.e. on my cell phone! I'm out of storage, so I can't download anymore for now! I love most everything from R&B to Country.
I really enjoy concerts and go as often as I can! I love to dance, although I'm not very good at it. LOL There's something about airplane and jet noise that excites me, so you might find me at an airshow or just sitting in my car at the airport. I'm a natural leader and get paid to do it, but I have always wanted a man who is take-charge, doesn't mind making decisions about what we're going to do and one who can challenge me with finesse. I like Alpha males, but if you are uncouth, it won't work. A bull in a china shop approach will get you kicked out of town. Conversely, I don't like the strong, silent type. While I admire your strength, I will get bored and frustrated with your lack of conversation and sharing of feelings. My preference is someone with teenaged or adult kids, as my child will be 18 next year. I'm not looking to start over with small children at my age. I'm looking for a long-term committed relationship that could lead to marriage. If you've read until this point, reach out and send me an email. It could be the love connection we're both looking for! :)
***note: I am strictly looking for white or latino men. Please respect that.
I am looking for
**no separated or recently divorced men, please.** ***no men without photos**** (can't believe I had to say that!)
PSA: If you email me, please have something to say. If you flirt with me and I respond, please have something to say. If you just send me a pic, and while it may be nice, you just lost my interest. I didn't write all of these details in my profile for sport. I am a professional woman of substance, seeking a man of the same caliber. Don't let the vacation pictures fool you. ;)
Some of you have obviously run across scammers and gold diggers. That makes it incredibly hard for a real, honest and loving woman like myself. You know what? I've run across some real scumbags in my life, had my share of heartbreak and disappointment too. And, I've come across some BSers on this site as well, but, I will not bring anything less than a positive outlook and my A-game to the dating scene. You get what you give.
With that said, I'm looking for a strong, mature and intelligent man with a good heart and a soft side. You are outgoing and enjoy real conversations, i.e. Don't text me to death. Call me. Bring the real you from day one, please. It's rather disappointing to meet prince charming in the beginning, only to meet his evil twin months later. Communication can make or break a relationship. I need someone who can communicate his thoughts and feelings: the good, the bad and the ugly, but respectfully. You are consistent, and this is really big for me. How you get me is how you keep me. You are romantic and chivalrous. You send flowers for no reason at all, other than I love them. Honesty is a required quality, but please understand that lying happens by both commission and omission. Everyone has baggage, but as long as your demons play well with mine, we can be happy. I've done my work. Have you done yours?
While I'm not looking to get married again anytime soon, I am interested in finding the right man for a long-term committed relationship. I'm in no rush to find my match and will not settle for less than what I want.
If you are in the DMV area, long-distance is okay. Otherwise, please don't expect anything other than pen-pals. LDRS are just too unfulfilling and costly.