AdventureZen

Man, Aged 27 in USA, New Jersey, Marlboro
Looking for a: Woman, Aged 18 - 28, Any Ethnicity

"Go big or go find someone average."

  • My ethnicity isWhite
  • Height5'7"-5'11"
  • StatusSingle
  • SeekingLong-term/Short-term
  • Body typeAthletic build
  • Have childrenNo children
  • SmokingHate smoking
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Iluvblk,
West Virginia, United States

How would you describe yourself?

The best parts of life are the peak experiences: when time just stops for a fraction of a second and you can't stop smiling because you're at the pinnacle of a perfect moment. That's what I'm all about. Whether jumping off a bridge, running barefoot, eating cactus pears or other exotic foods, singing loudly to fun dance music on a freeway, or getting lost in a Malaysian jungle, I make sure to find creative ways to push myself. You could only have more interesting stories to tell if your ex (you know which one) is now setting you up on lots of blind dates. And I mean lots.

I'm following my passion building a business where I help change the way people think so they change the results they attract. I ask deep questions, listen actively, and empower people to motivate themselves. This line of work sure beats the cubicle life. Then again, what doesn't? Even being Kid Rock's groupie is better than working as a wage slave in a tiny box.

I'm hugely into personal development. Hugely. Some people may find this unattractive. Some people are also crazy. But I've found that being open and driven to grow works beautifully to repel the kind of people I don't want around me: energy drainers, angry folk, and stalkers. At the same time, my mentality attracts those who take responsibility for their place in life, constantly improve on their lifelong journey, inhabit nonjudgmental space, appreciate the present moment, and also, for some reason, tend to enjoy fighting crime at night.

I am looking for...

I am in the right place, with people I love, doing the right work, on purpose. I'm looking to connect with women who would make that formula even better. But be aware: I'm very picky. The only drama in my life happens when I go see Shakespeare or Avenue Q. I don't have a lot of time so that means I don't waste it. If you seem interesting enough, I'm going to quickly want to do what normal people do -- meet up. That's where I will use my highly developed superpowers to see if we mesh.

I only date women I'm attracted to. You get big bonus points for any of the following: being playful, adventurous, spontaneous, ambitious, active, deep, self-aware, and appreciative of life's complexities. Most importantly, attraction also means you cannot smell bad. I'm well aware this now adds a whole new dimension to choosing the right perfume and showering regularly. The pressure's on.

Oh, one more thing: I like to add a little edge to what I do. Consider that your warning. So if you think you're up to the challenge, the last thing you want to do is be shy. Go big or go find someone average.

About Him

  • Want childrenUndecided about wanting children
  • Eye colorGreen
  • Hair colorDark Brown
  • OccupationSelf-employed
  • EducationBachelors degree
  • LanguagesEnglish/Hebrew

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Message Flirt Favorite IM

"Met My True Love"

I joined this site with no hope on finding love and didn't check it regularly. I checked it a few months later, on my birthday actually and found that I had a message from someone who wanted to meet me. We started emailing and texting then meeting and now we are in a serious relationship !! I have... read more

Iluvblk,
West Virginia, United States