My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'6" (168 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
Nickname | AQTinCT, Woman, 53 |
Location | Rocky Hill, Connecticut, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 39 - 56, Asian/White/East Indian... (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'6" (168 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
How would you describe yourself?
Attractive, curious, curvaceous, and intelligent. Please IM or email if you'd like to learn more.
I AM a self-described "paradox": intelligent, while down-to-earth; gregarious, yet introspective; confident and attractive, but non-judgmental of others; addicted to NPR, but appreciative of Reggae, Rap, R&B (and a host of other musical genres); chivalry-loving, although a forward-thinking modern woman; sensual, with class; full-figured and well-proportioned; sassy/bold/care-free, yet maternal; candid, but usually tactful; feminine, with a mildly adventurous tomboy side (have my motorcycle license, have bungee jumped, am an amateur equestrian and amateur skier... I did say amateur, right?). You'll have to get to know me to see how all of these pieces fit together.:)
LOVE to TRAVEL - Whether Road Trip, Flight, or Cruise. Have visited various European, Caribbean, and domestic destinations. Have also "sampled" Morocco and Canada. Have so many places that I yet intend to go. My passport is ready. Let's go!
Energized by what's LIVE:
LIFE itself, live theater, live sporting events, live music, live stand-up comedy, live conversations (person-to-person vs an email-a-thon/text), etc.
I enjoy dancing, indulge me.
Lastly, I'm 5'6", but enjoy wearing heels when going out on a date, so I usually appear 5'7" or taller.
I am looking for
An honest GENTLEMAN for whom chivalry is second-nature and genuine, not a courtship put-on. Don't start chivalrous and then just quit cold-turkey.
Preferably a single or widowed man who values women and relationships, and is relationship minded, not interested in playing the field. A gentleman for whom character counts - who is reasonably intelligent, sufficiently educated, well-versed, decently traveled, self-confident AND interested in a long-term relationship.
Re: long-term, no rush, let's discover one another & evolve. There's no rush from our first date to the altar, or from our first date to the bedroom... Let's just flow, naturally, and have a long-term plan in mind as we begin navigating our course.
Please be emotionally available and a good communicator, stoicism does not work for me.
Understand how sensuality and romance are simultaneously subtle, yet undeniably powerful. There is something to be said for subtlety and the nuanced art of seduction. (Think Luther Vandross, "So Amazing" -vs- R. Kelly, "Bump & Grind". Huge difference! Right?!)
I seek to find a gentleman, who in addition to all of the above, is also "doing as well as me or better", (eg., my equal OR better, as it relates to career-consciousness, and matters emotional, mental, academic, physical, financial, spiritual, etc.)
If you're family-oriented, that's a huge plus!
(And please note that I used the term gentleman throughout this section, I'm not just looking for a man, but a gentleman.)
If in addition to all of the above, you can naturally, effortlessly make me laugh (I love to laugh and laugh easily and often), then please, by all means, find me NOW. LOL. NOW! Because clearly, you are THE ONE for me.;)